A concept · Reality Deceives · Psychology
Metacognition
Thinking about your own thinking is the master skill.
We revise for the exam, feel ready, and the paper proves otherwise. We leave the meeting sure we were calm, and the recording shows someone who was not. We judged our own thinking, and the judge was the thing being judged. Everyone has been confident and wrong in the same breath, and the confidence gave no warning at all. How do we check the instrument when the instrument is us?
What Metacognition means
Metacognition is thinking about our own thinking: stepping back from a thought to ask how it was made and how far to trust it. The word is long and the definition short. Owning it changes the pace of our reactions. We start to notice the difference between knowing something and feeling that we know it, and we stop treating the feeling as proof. We begin to catch a reaction as it forms, which leaves a small gap in which to decide what to do with it. Before: the thought arrives and we act on it. After: the thought arrives, we notice it arriving, and the choice belongs to us. It does not make our thinking accurate; it makes it ours.
Not to be confused with
Metacognition is not introspection or mindfulness, though it borrows from both. Introspection looks at what we are feeling. Mindfulness notices it without judgement. Metacognition asks whether the way we are thinking about a problem is the right way, and changes it.
Metacognition examples: where it shows up
- At work: the confident plan we never stress-tested, because confidence felt like having stress-tested it.
- In our own careers: the skill we think we have mastered, judged by the ease of watching someone else do it.
- In a relationship: the pause between feeling slighted and replying, which is where every better answer we ever gave came from.
Where it sits
Concept 5 of 5 in Reality Deceives, a journey in the course The Examined Mind.
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Nearest on the sky
- Bayesian Thinking
- The Curse of Knowledge
- Dual-Process Theory
- Dunning-Kruger Effect
- Taste
- The Evening Review
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